“Custody to mother - 2hrs supervised visitation father” Judge #5 States. Retaliatory action against father, ends children's 8 and 6 year relationship with their dedicated father. A trial by jury requiring clear and convincing standard of proof would of destroyed mothers lies, avoided State kidnapping and States violation of the 14th Amendment. A higher standard of evidence tested by a Jury - not some biased judgmental bureaucrat must become law to avoid KIDNAPPING of OUR CHILDREN by bureaucrats.
MORE LESSONS FROM LUZERN COUNTY (PA) [col. writ. 3/2/09] (c) '09 Mumia Abu-Jamal
Recently, a piece was produced on the scandal in Pennsylvania's Luzerne County, where 2 judges pleaded guilty for playing their parts in a kickback scheme that netted them over 2 and 1/2 million bucks.
The beneficiaries of their hustle were private juvenile prison builders, owners and investors (oh -- and themselves, of course).
The losers were hundreds of Luzerne County's children, kids who were treated like cattle, as they were shuffled through so-called 'courts' -- without counsel --, where so-called 'judges' sent them away from their parents, their siblings, and their fellow students, for acts as benign as passing notes, or sending fresh emails -- to private prisons for profit!
While the judges pleaded guilty to relatively minor charges, some other officials at the court, from county clerk to deputy court administrator have followed the judges in plea agreements.
What is utterly remarkable is how easily and effortlessly these judges did their thing, in stark violation of the state's Juvenile Act, * with virtual impunity, for almost a decade!
One must wonder, where were the lawyers looking out for the interests of these kids? Or were they so cowed, so shocked, so shaken by a 'long train of abuses' that they were silenced by the ugliness of corruption, and the aura of fear?
Pennsylvania law allegedly provides protections for children, including the right to counsel (even if they couldn't afford it), and a legal presumption that all kids should remain with their families. As a general rule, a child shouldn't have been detained unless she posed a danger to others, their property, or herself. There are exceptions to this rule, and they were whether the child was charged with committing major felonies, like robbery, rape or murder.
There was apparently another exception -- whether or not President Judge Mark Ciavarella or Senior Judge Michael Conahan wanted to make some quick bucks.
They were subject to a higher law -- get money!
What the Luzerne County scandal has shown us is that what happens in many courts is both a business and a mystery. For millions of Americans, the law is a puzzle written in Latin, one unable to decode.
It also shows us that sometimes the criminal is sitting on the bench, wearing a black robe.
--(c) '09 maj
[* See various PA statutes, like Tit. 42 Pa. C. S. 6301 et seq. (Re: Purposes of "Juvenile Act": To preserve the unity of the family whenever possible or to provide another alternative permanent family when the unity of the family cannot be maintained.) ; Tit. 42 Pa. C. S 6337: (Re: 'Right to Counsel': (....{A} party is entitled to representation by legal counsel at all stages of any proceedings under this chapter and if he is without financial resources or otherwise unable to employ counsel, to have the court provide counsel for him. If a party appears without counsel the court shall ascertain whether he knows of his right thereto and be provided with counsel by the court if applicable. Counsel must be provided for a child unless his parent, guardian, or custodian is present in court and affirmatively waive it....)]
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I understood this message thread to be about family law reform, not a forum for spreading more ignorance or to act as a lobbying forum for defending the injustice of our Health care system. FEAR through IGNORANCE is unfortunately what is being used to challenge Pres. Obama’s Healthcare reform initiatives. Have you ever wondered who is behind this misinformation movement and why?
Do intelligent free thinking people really come out on their own free will to disrupt intelligent debate at our local town halls and fight for their right to maintain a system of healthcare in which their health care will be refused them if they have a pre-existing condition; a system where accountants routinely turn down treatment that is needed because of cost. Are intelligent people really standing in the streets and demanding their right to be bankrupted if they can’t pay a medical bill (the leading cause of bankruptcy in the US)! Are intelligent people really demanding their right to pay $2000 a month for drugs that cost $25.00 that they can’t afford so their health care CEO’s can keep making $20M a year! Do we really believe that there are WMD out there again and that Iraq was responsible for 911! How many times will people let themselves be led so the powerful can steal more from them! Are our fellow citizens really going to town hall meetings and demanding our right to have our health care industry continue to screw every breathing American until we and this country are completely bankrupt. Are people really standing in the streets passionately arguing against government run health care when they have a Medicaid / Medicare card stuffed in their wallet or purse - programs that have been serving these same people better than most private schemes serve the rest of us and for much less than any private scheme could do so!
Healthcare should not only be available to the privileged but should be a RIGHT for all American Citizens. High quality of Medical Technology could be combined with great and affordable healthcare for all in the U.S.A. like it is in for nearly ALL 1st world nations. I frankly do not believe America can be considered a 1st world country until it provides every American with affordable health care! Should 1st world nations let their people die because they can’t afford a drug or an operation.
Many paid off politicians and lobbyists (dare I say, mostly Republicans) are making stupid, inaccurate and uninformed statements about what is being proposed and spreading lies about other successful healthcare systems around the planet as if some Socialist bogeyman conspiracy is being planned. When I see messages like this one below I am reminded of how so many people like to be led and whipped up in to a frenzy and told what to think by those that wish to continue stealing from them and manipulate them, as so many were blindly led to go to war based on lies as is chillingly demonstrated in the movie: ‘Why we fight: ” http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=9219858826421983682 Now the same kinds of greed and self serving interests that led our people in to some of our darkest hours are at work again in this debate and it looks like many in this country would rather be told what to think than go and check out the facts for themselves from credible sources! People - please check your facts before spreading the agenda of those that wish to maintain their profits and monopoly on healthcare and continue screwing us all over!
Shared parenting is a moral right and a supreme right under the 14th amendment!
PS: I fear John missed the point of what he was reacting to. In my humble opinion, the intention of the communication was to encourage lists of disinformation (not lists of the dis-informers) to be communicated so that list of topics could be created – and countered - like the AARP, CNN, NYT have all done to accurately verify or discount the disinformation being circulated at this time by the lobbying machines and paid off politicians. And on the topic of a single payer healthcare plan – that would be the lowest cost option for this country in my opinion as COOPs have demonstrated already – it’s a shame that the lobbyists will likely tank this idea from being considered because this scheme will really challenge the healthcare and drug companies.
... to investigate family law courts and MEDIATION services, even if only limited to Sacramento and Marin Counties.
August 2nd 2009
State Joint Legislative Audit Committee,
Senators and Assembly members of the California State Senate.
California State Senate,
State Capitol Building,
SACRAMENTO,
CA 95814
Dear Senators and Assembly members.
REF: information pertaining to your impending AUDIT OF FAMILY LAW COURTS, MARIN AND SACRAMENTO COUNTY [please investigate Alameda county also!]
Your agreement to investigate California family law courts (even if only Sacramento and Marin County ) reached on July 1st 2009 has in part restored some of my faith in the State machinery of California. My faith in California and the United States has been severely damaged by my forced dealings with Family Law Court and Criminal Law courts. To pull from a quote at the end of this letter; “it is my firm belief after more than 400 needless actions in family law court have been forced on me, that Family law court is nothing less than the last bastion of human rights violations in this country and it is an organized crime (extortion ) machine plundering ordinary families for the benefit of State (Title IVd) and big business.” Family law courts are the antithesis of our Constitution and everything this country stands for. As for the constitution - our family law judges violate it in countless actions in every single court room across this State.
I WOULD URGE ALL SENATORS TO PAY ATTENTION TO THIS AUDIT AND THE GREATER IMPLICATIONS OF WHAT THE AUDIT WILL UNDOUBTABLY REVEAL ABOUT OUR FAMILY LAW SYSTEM. I URGE SENATORS TO EXPAND THIS INVESTIGATION TO OTHER COUNTIES (ALAMEDA COUNTY) AND LOOK IN TO THE IMPACTS OF WHAT FAMILY LAW COURT S ARE DOING TO THE SOCIETY OF CALIFORNIA AND OUR CHILDREN (43% fatherlessness).
Please look carefully in to the open questions that are raised by distinguished individuals that are incensed by what is going on in our courts. The media below will alert you to the main issues.
Please Talk to leading experts in their field like: Dr. Warren Farrell (probably leading expert on best interests of the child); Judge Sandy Keith, Former CHIEF Justice on MN Supreme Court – supporter shared parenting Bill; US Senator Nancy Schaefer – knowledgeable on corruption of court services ; Dr. Stephen Baskerville – leading authority on courts abuse of the family and anti-fathering; Alec Baldwin – experienced what many men experience in court ; Dr. Jayne A. Major, Ph.D. (Executive Director, Breakthrough Parenting Services, Inc. – leading authority on parent alienation); New Jersey hero Judge Schultz who has stated Protection Order law as practiced in family law court across the nation is unconstitutional – Crespo V Crespo; Carol Rhodes – former FOC enforcement officer; Leon R Kozoil – respected constitutional rights attorney and counsel for the national league of fathers.
Please be aware because of parents activism like myself, case studies on court abuse have been sent directly to the Michelle Obama at the Whitehouse over the last four months. We are informed that the Whitehouse and Michelle Obama is taking an interest in this issue at this time. We await to see what our stirring of the pot will cause.
I also urge senators to elect a body of the public to monitor the work of the committee for many of us fear that when you encounter what you will encounter you may want to gently put the lid on the vile mess that you will find going on in our court system. Having a body of the public work with you on this mission will in some ways assure the public that you did do a thorough job in investigating the courts.
I would like to advise all those involved in this task that you may well have embarked on one of your most important audit undertakings ever by your committee for the impact of what is going on in our corrupt family court system is destroying countless lives and no doubt causing many premature deaths.
As the abuse in the system is revealed to you I would like to remind you all of a constitutional quote that drives those of us who are determined to end the corruption we have been exposed to in our courts, so that our children will never have to experience the same injustices that we have been forced to deal with simply so they can go on to one day parent their own children without State interference (a constitutional right afforded us all despite what California court judges do in practice):
"Our safety, our liberty, depends upon preserving the Constitution of the United States as our Fathers made it inviolate. The People of the United States are the rightful masters of both Congress and the Courts, not to overthrow the Constitution, but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution."
- Abraham Lincoln
The following body of this document is an excerpt from a document mailed to ################################################# The text points to ####################### ##########################! My case is no different to thousands of others who have been repeatedly violated in our courts by mediators and judges. I hope this opens your eyes to what we have experienced.
As you work through your audit you should be reminded that California IS the State that introduced law that is primarily the root cause of the demise of the family, enacted on January 1st 1970 with the election and introduction for no fault divorce legislation – an experiment that has gone badly wrong! California’s move in this direction was followed sadly by every State in the US and most countries in the western world. The problem of no fault divorce was that it provided a foundation for the basis of money hungry attorneys to develop preemptive divorce strategies. A tactic that allows a moving party to steal the house, the crown jewels and the children by preemptively striking the unknowing spouse with dissolution of marriage petition, alleging baseless false abuse charges.
While fathers did not want a place to equally parent their children forty years ago – custody challenges were not a major problem but as men have increasingly claimed their right to take equal responsibility to parent their children, disputed custody is now at epidemic numbers much to the glee of the legal profession, mediators and evaluators. False abuse accusations in themselves are normally enough to allow the moving party (85% led by mothers between ages 30 – 40) to secure custody and can often result in the father being thrown out of his own home for doing nothing wrong and not even appreciating a divorce was on its way.
The bastard child of no fault divorce (family court) is perjury. However, perjury is seldom prosecuted – if ever (never in my case) because prosecution tends to end litigation. Judges are accommodating that way, reasoning it's better to rule in a way that promotes legal services, unending court battles, not end them.
Perjury allows judges to expand the industry, such as orders for supervised visitation, evaluations, childrens counsel, more evaluations and other legal services with “””dubious professionals””” who can with out meeting children or the other parent decide on the destiny of a child and family in less than 20 minutes with out standing up from their chair or taking a breath. Children are the cog that turns the judicial wheel of fortune for attorneys and other comers in the divorce and custody industry.
If the Senate turns a blind eye to the inhumanity that is practiced in the name of this great State in our family law courts day in and day out, then I believe the people will finally rise to bring class actions suits ( being prepared as I write this) against it and these will be won and they will in time bring this state to its knees and bankrupt it for the crimes that this state has inflicted on millions of good parents and innocents children in the name of the State of California.
Judge Sandy Keith, Former CHIEF Justice on MN Supreme Court on Shared Parenting Bill. What do experienced judges think of what is going on in family law courts? http://www.carinaandpierce.com/search?q=NATIONAL+LAW
Dr. Stephen Baskerville lays out the ISSUES and Problems created by Family/ Divorce Court throughout the Nation, and its impact on Children and parents
Dr. Warren Farrell, Author Father and Child Reunion Leading world authority on best interests of the child: His DVD summarizes the conclusions from over 200 scientific research studies conducted over 25+ years. It is the result of the largest compilation of research ever done on this topic. Many thousands of children were followed for 5, 10 and even 15 years after divorce to gather data. It took Dr. Warren Farrell over thirteen years just to compile this research from many researchers for his book. http://www.bestinterestofchildren.org/ IGNORED BY COURTS<>
The STATE appointed Mediator who thankfully investigated my case at my request Is called Mrs. ################## – she has 23 years experience in Alameda County Mediation Services – Hayward mediation services (Alameda County) – I would recommend some one at the Senate talks with her as you learn more about the practices of mediators and the courts. If it were not for Mrs ##################### discrediting the efforts of Oakland county courts and mediators - on the matter of their separating me from my children FOR ABSOLUTLY NOTHING after a year long custody invetigation concluded I was a great father then I would have no relationship with my children today. Rporting a mediator for corruption and ignoring the law should not be a basis for a parent being seperated from his children and allowed 2hrs supervised visitation and every other week once he pays out $100.00
As you go forward please remember what the courts have forgotten: “There is a fundamental liberty right guaranteed to both parents by the 14th Amendment to the care, custody, and nurture of their children. According to the US Supreme Court: “Absent a Compelling State Interest of harm or potential harm to the child, the State may not intervene in the privacy of family life.”
The State family law systems are designed to benefit the professions that feed on them. To afford this they have come up with reasons why 'legal professionals' can ignore supreme law of the US constitution, a fact that I was reminded again in my case. Rulings have nothing to do with justice or protecting the rights of innocent children or former spouses falsely accused by malicious parents.
The system is nothing more than the last bastion of Human Rights Abuse in this country. The system must be dismantled so America does not turn in to a fatherless wasteland of ever increasing societal problems. It is already half way there with fatherless now exceeding 43% nationally thanks to a large measure by evil mediators and liars (atnys) and unconstitutional judges that are destroying the American family all for profit.
CA lawmakers helped create the problem raised in this document on January 1st 1970 – now - I am hopeful - they have made the first step to undo the evil that has plagued our society ever since and destroyed millions of lives for absolutely nothing other than the profit of courts and their foot soldiers - the legal profession!
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THE ABOVE IS AN EXCERPT ONLY - THE REMAINING BODY OF THIS DOCUMENT IS ATTACHED IN THE ACCOMPANYING WORD FILE.
Thank you for taking this unprecedented step to look in to the rampant corruption prevalent in our family law system. I commend the Assembly and Senators for tackling this evil empire.
On behalf of my children and I, I pass on my heart felt thanks to all of you for taking on this most important task on behalf of those that have already been violated by our courts (or worse), and for those who may be saved if the Senate does it job properly and orders the leveling of our family court system as it stands today so it can be constitutionally rebuilt.
I wish to make it clear that in my battle - I have experienced outright gender bias in the courts, however, I am equally aware that great mothers are being removed from their children because the father may have been the moving party and made false accusations against the mother/or was an attorney or had friends in the system and therefore won favor with the court which in Alameda seem to cater to the moving party over the defendant regardless if the moving party had illegally removed the children from our of the state as was the case in my circumstance!
Sincerely,
Paul Coppock,
Alameda, CA; Father, Equal parent to Pierce and Carina under the constitution but not under California Family Court practice.
Washington Senator Pam Roach and Former Senator Nancy Schaefer: “CPS is Corrupt”
We were joined by two very special guests to discuss Child Protective Services and Parental Rights. Although these two notable figures live great distances apart, their noble goals are remarkably similar. Nancy Schaefer and Pam Roach made special appearances on Get Your Justice Live Wednesday April 29, 2009. A common theme that both leaders agreed on is that “CPS is Corrupt.”
EPISODE211 - Senator Pam Roach and Former Senator Nancy Schaefer Live [1:13:38m]: Hide Player | Play in Popup
Nancy Schaefer is president of Eagle Forum of Georgia. She served in the Georgia State Senate for four years. She has been a staunch defender of parents’ rights and will also assume the position of Eagle Forum’s National Chairman of Parents’ Rights. She is president of Family Concerns, Inc. and represented Eagle Forum at the Untied Nations conferences in Beijing, Istanbul, Rome and New York. Nancy Schaefer is well-known for a scathing report titled “The Corrupt Business of Child Protective Services” that was originally released on November 16, 2007 and later updated on September 25, 2008. (Download Available)
State Senator Pam Roach continues to serve in the Washington State Senate for 19 years. In the year 2000, Senator Roach and her son Representative Dan Roach became the first mother/son duo to represent the same district at the same time. Throughout her years of service she has represented the U.S. in East Timor for the International Republican Institute; hosted a radio talk show on KIRO in Seattle; and is founder of an NGO in Honduras among other accomplishments. As Judiciary chair she authored landmark bills on juvenile justice and DUI. Senator Roach chaired the Children and Family Services Committee and continues to advocate for children and parental rights. This year Senator Roach chaired a special legislative committee to shine light on the lack of accountability and trampling of parental rights by the Child Protective Services. She continues to demand accountability within Child Protective Services today.
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You can learn more about Eagle Forum by visiting their website at http://www.eagleforum.org and also find additional resources pertaining to the Pam Roach Report at http://pamroachreport.blogspot.com. By referring your own legislators to these resources, organizations, and interviews you can supplement your own voice and positions about the “Corrupt Business of Child Protective Services” and establish a higher burden of proof on the various state programs before they are able to burgeon your family.
No matter which way you look at it, former Georgia Senator Nancy Schaefer as well as Washington State Senator Pam Roach believe that “Parental Rights Should Be Respected and Protected By All” and the great need for Child Protective Services to come under greater scrutiny of the general public.Please take a listen and spread the word.
"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." (Edmund Burke)
Thursday, March 19, 2009
Excellent Video, Excellent Bill, for the sake of CHILDREN ALL OVER ( not only in MN but all through the USA ), We Hope that the law will be made IN THE BEST INTEREST OF CHILDREN and that this law becomes a NATIONAL LAW.
Parents have enough trouble picking up their lives with out being forced to FIGHT against each other to gain access to their own children, THE LAW SHOULD PRESUME Each parent is an equally good parent and award 50/50 Joint Legal Physical custody automatically! The courts have no right to interfere in forcing any other outcome with out REAL evidence of wrong doing by the other parent (false abuse accusations)! Real evidence does not equal bogus, fact less false charges picked out of an attorneys book of dirty tricks (known as "Silver Bullets" tricks to steal kids from a father that courts automatically fall for).
My experience of Family Courts suggests mediators, judges (in my case at least) is that they should rot in hell for crimes against humanity for persecuting children and innocent parents. These "professionals" have the power to abduct our children on a whim and based on no evidence of wrong doing, powers that violate every tenant of our constitution.
Most "professionals" that I have interacted with in this corrupt system (4 year case, 8 judges....!) are ignorant, self consumed in their own importance, prejudiced, gender biased and are incapable of following the laws that are supposed to guide them. According to our constitution they do not have the power to do what they do and yet they force parents to fight for access to their own children.
The morons that pretend to act for the benefits of our children should be tried and imprisoned for crimes against humanity and failing to uphold our Constitution! They torture thousands of children every year and destroy parents for wanting to exercise their constitutional rights to parent their own children!
In my forty plus years I have never dealt with such an incompetent organization (Family court, Child custody mediation services) or dealt with people that care so little for the children they pretend to be working for.
These organizations and the people that helped traumatize and abduct my children are the antithesis of everything that the US and the US Constitution stands for... I look forward to seeing these organizations dismantled and these professional liars and cheats personally dragged through the courts for years (like they have done to us) and personally fined, ruined and imprisoned for child cruelty and inflicting cruel and unusual punishment on parents and children.
The story of Stolen Vows Designed by those who would benefit most, no-fault divorce laws were rolled out across the country over thirty years ago. Wedding day promises lost all meaning when the newly-coined standard — Irretrievable Breakdown — replaced former ‘grounds’ for divorce. Within fifteen years each state had its own unique ‘no-fault’ language but the results were virtually the same when couples got to court. The judge was empowered to 'force' a divorce on an unwitting spouse and then divide up the family belongings — including the children. Lawyers used unscrupulous tactics to crush any lingering affection in order to deliver the final product — divorce. Capitalizing on the nation's growing misery, a profitable Divorce Industry arose and wiped away any lingering hope that was embodied in the original cornerstone of the divorce reform movement — the ‘Marriage Hospital’ that could attend to the Family Court 'casualties' and enhance opportunities for reconciliation. Learn how scoundrels got hold of this original high-minded ideal and turned it into a sinister scheme. Those whose role was to ‘protect’ the institution that is the foundation of family and society ravaged it instead. But a new wind is blowing in the land. Once the spell is broken and the veil of illusion is lifted, we can finally roll up our sleeves and begin the job of building the ‘Marriage Hospital’.
Presumed Guilty Attorney Brian Dinday says too often local prosecutors won't drop domestic violence cases -- even when they know the accusations are false.
Alameda Family Law Court and Family and Child Mediation Services
Constitutional Quote
"Our safety, our liberty, depends upon preserving the Constitution of the United States as our Fathers made it inviolate. The People of the United States are the rightful masters of both Congress and the Courts, not to overthrow the Constitution, but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution." - Abraham Lincoln
'Venus: The Dark Side'-Roy Sheppard /Mary Cleary:Venus, chronicles how unscrupulous women target and abuse innocent, gentle men, women and children. These women see their victims as having a character flaw that is there to be exploited.The book explores the lying, cheating, conniving and manipulation of women with malicious intent. What are the everyday tricks of their tyrannical trade? How she claims to be the victim when she is the aggressor. And how this makes it far more difficult for genuine female victims to receive the help they need and deserve.
Remininder
A REMINDER TO SUPERIOR COURT OF CALIFORNIA, FAMILY OR KANGAROO COURT SECTION
14th Amendment to the Constitution of the United States of America, Section 1All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the State wherein they reside. No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
“There is a fundamental liberty right guaranteed to both parents by the 14th Amendment to the care, custody, and nurture of their children. According to the US Supreme Court: “Absent a Compelling State Interest of harm or potential harmto the child, the State may not intervene in the privacy of family life.” Note: Former Supreme Court Justice Abe Fortas characterized Family court with the term "kangaroo court."
These are my two wonderful children. My rights to parent them equally in divorce have been denied me three years after my ex dissolved our marriage with out warning. My children and I have been seperated through my Ex's application of an unconstitutional family law system. Like other fathers, I was FRAMED by the ex wife, her attorney and Judges of the Kangaroo Court to no longer have access to my children for absolutely no reason that would have stood the light of day if our courts followed the basic tenants afforded my children and I by the 14th amendment of the constitution of the United States!
I am fighting For Fathers Rights, Parents Rights, Children's Rights, Equal Rights, Family Rights, Family Law Reform, Ending Parental Alienation, Shared Parenting, 50/50 Custody For Two Fit Parents, CA Family Law Reform, Exposing Gender Bias and Family Law Discrimination, abeyance of our Constitutional Rights, Truth, Justice, and Accountability, the right to fine and try Family Law Judges for knowingly committing crimes against fathers, mothers, their children and society.
We, the members of the American Coalition for Fathers and Children, hereby dedicate ourselves and our efforts to the creation of a family law system, legislative system, and public awareness which promotes equal rights for ALL parties affected by divorce, and the breakup of a family or establishment of paternity. It is our belief through our involvement and dedication, we can have a positive effect on the emotional and psychological well-being of children.
We believe equal, shared parenting time or joint custody is the optimal custody situation.
We believe the best parent is both biological parents.
We believe grandparents should have rights and access to their grandchildren.
We believe gender bias should be eliminated from family law and from future legislation.
We believe BOTH biological parents should be responsible for the emotional and psychological well-being of their children, as well as financially responsible.
We believe in the concept of fairness and equity in support for ALL families; and, that all children involved in a blended family should have equal rights, and do deserve equal rights and equal protection under the law.
We believe child support orders should be reasonable, realistically reflect the cost of the children's basic needs, and reflect the relative parenting contribution of both parents in a shared parenting plan.
We believe when parents are given equal rights, equal responsibility follows; when parents have equal access to their children and support levels are reasonable and reflect the true cost of raising a child, parents will comply with court orders.
We believe when equity is created in our laws, the conflicts inherent in divorce situations dissolve and that, in the end, this is the greatest gift which we, as parents, could possibly bestow on our children.
With women initiating approximately 70-75% of all divorces, Women�s Infidelity author Michelle Langley believes the answer is a resounding "no". Langley contends women frequently pursue separations and divorces under the guise of �searching for self� however, she states the real reason is often another man. Langley says it�s not uncommon for women to be happily married prior to having affairs. She also states that many men are being divorced by their wives without ever knowing about their wives� extramarital relationships.
Langley believes as a society we need to stop perpetuating the myth that females are naturally monogamous because in today�s world, it is doing more harm than good. She asserts in the past, prior to DNA testing, the monogamous myth was helpful in easing paternity insecurity in males. However, today, this erroneous belief keeps women from taking responsibility when they do cheat. When women cheat they typically put the blame on their husband. Langley believes women�s lack of knowledge about their own natural, sexual impulses makes them much more likely than men to leave their marriages due to their sexual attractions and affairs. Again, studies prove currently women are initiating approximately 70-75% of all divorces.
Researching women�s sexual behavior has been Michelle Langley�s focus for almost a decade. She began an independent inquiry into the subject after a series of unrelated incidents sparked her interest. Several years into her research she was able to identify distinctive patterns and behaviors in the women she interviewed. She categorized these patterns into �stages� that women often experience during the course of their long-term relationships. The stages begin with the loss of sexual desire. Her book, Women�s Infidelity: Living in Limbo: What Women Really Mean When They Say, �I�m Not Happy� delves head on into this controversial subject matter and is available for purchase at http://www.womensinfidelity.com
Female infidelity will not only continue to be extremely common but it will also continue to be on the rise
Women are cheating and relationships are ending because men and women lack necessary information. Today's relationship problems are not only solvable, but many can be easily solved ─once you understand what the real problem is. The information in Women's Infidelity should be common knowledge to couples, both married and unmarried, and to dating males and females. Trying to have a relationship today without the information in this book is like to trying to read without knowing the letters of the alphabet. This is not an exaggeration─it's a fact.
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